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Is there consent?
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The erotic power of unshackled male dominance
When rape is a gift
The resistant woman
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The soothing effect of vowing to obey
Laying the groundwork for other possibilities
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20 years
I'm really glad that you and your husband are so happy. My husband and I had been together for 22 years (on and off), before we got around to this kind of relationship . It has made a big difference to our lives too.
Speaking for myself, though, the spanking is not the crux of the matter, since that was something we had been doing anyway. I mean, my husband had been spanking me all that time without it making me happier, sweeter, or more obedient (except on a very temporary basis). This is why I am slightly surprised by articles that suggest that spanking a woman can make an enormous difference to her attitude etc, because this was not the case with me. It required a sort of mental adjustment that was about more than spanking, since that was something we were doing anyway.
I think you are probably wise though not to shout out about the glories of a Taken In Hand relationship to newly married couples, better to keep it to yourself, "an illicit pleasure" as Confused of Home Counties says.
